It has been two weeks since I have written my first blog post and now I am able to answer the question, which bothered me before I started university.
Are my flatmates nice?
Yes, they are. Everyone in my flat is really lovely, friendly and social and I am really happy about that. In my opinion you don’t have to be friends with everybody on your floor (and it is probably impossible because there are 23 of them living on my floor), but I think it is important that you are friendly to everyone and just ask them how their day was, when you meet them in the kitchen and that’s exactly what my floor mates do.
Is my room big enough?
My first thought about my room was: “Even a prison cell must be bigger than my room”, but I have to say that even though I don’t have a lot of space, it is all I need. I have a comfy bed, a wardrobe, a table and a sink and the good thing about being an International student is that you don’t have a lot of stuff with you, so compared to my British flatmates my room has a minimalistic style and is always tidy.
Is it hard to share a bathroom or a kitchen with five or more people?
I am an only child and I never had to share a bathroom or a kitchen with a lot of people before. So I have to admit, it is hard. Especially, the first few mornings were quite awkward, because all these people you have just met and might not even remember their name, were walking to the bathroom in just a bathrobe or a towel. The good thing about sharing a kitchen though is that you have always company around, because everybody needs to eat and if you don’t want company, you just go to your room and close the door.
Are the any other Austrian or German students at the university?
Yes there are. Unfortunately, most of them are German as Germany is a lot bigger than Austria, but we still speak a similar (some people would say the same) language and there is even a German society, which I will join.
And probably the most important one:
Is Fresher’s week as much fun as I think it will be?
This is probably one of the essentials questions for International students (and I am sure all the British 6th formers are also eager to know how it is) because I think Britain is the only European country, which has got a proper Fresher’s week.
Let me start at the beginning of Fresher’s week with my arrival day. My arrival at university reminded me of the” dropping of at boarding school scene” from the film “Wild Child”. (If you haven’t seen it yet, watch the trailer here) . After unloading my luggage from the car, I just looked up at my accommodation and I thought about getting all my things back in the car, because for me, it looked just like a prison, but after all, my excitement about starting university kicked in and a little voice in my head told me that I should just go in and unpack. The problem here was, that I was late. All my flatmates had already unpacked because they arrived in the morning and I arrived in the afternoon and then I went out with my host family to get dinner. So actually I did not meet any of my flatmates till I came back in the evening. I have to admit that I was really scared about meeting them, but after all it was fine as it is the same situation for everybody. Everybody just moved out from home and moved to a new city and might not know anybody on campus. The only thing, which was and still is difficult for me, is to understand all the different English accents.
So the first socialising with my flatmates happened in one of the kitchens (all in all, my flat has two big kitchens and one small kitchen in the middle) and after the socialising in the kitchen, we went to a party at the Plug, which is the Student Unions own club on campus and it is fab. Since that night my flat calls me Kevin because apparently there is a Belgian football player called Kevin Mirallas and as most English natives can’t roll their R, they can’t pronounce my name, therefore it is much easier for them to call me Kevin or Kev. So, if you are an International student, be prepared that English students won’t be able to pronounce your name and give you a nickname.
I should probably mention that every flat has two older students looking after them during Fresher’s week and helping them to settle in at University. At this point, I want to thank Kathy and Dave, who were looking after my flat, because they did a great job and were always around in the evening in our kitchens and then going to the Student Unions parties with us and helping the people who had one drink too much. Thank you guys. The first night and the first day were probably the scariest days as I did not know anybody yet but after that it was great (but still scary as you still don’t know anybody really).
During the day I had some introduction and networking events from my course, where I talked to a lot of people from my course. The networking events are one of the best things about studying at the School of Management as it helps you to get to know your course colleagues and to make friends as it is much easier to make friends over pizza and beer compared to making friends during a lecture.
During the night though my flatmates and I went to all the SU main events at the Founder’s Hall. I have to say that I did not enjoy every minute of every event because there were times when I just thought, “What am I doing here? I could be at Vienna with my friends, having a great time”, but these times were rare and I was able to ignore these thoughts because I knew the first year at university will be hard and that it is okay to be homesick from time to time.
All in all, the Student Union did a wonderful job and I recommend every International student to get a Fresher’s wristband when they start university as it allows you to experience Fresher’s week in a proper English way and you meet so many people, which might be your future friends. At one party I lost my whole flat but I just talked to a bunch of people who I thought looked nice and it turned out that one of the girls is German and now we are friends. So it is really important that you come to university with an open mind and just talk to everybody. That’s probably the most useful lesson I learned during Fresher’s week. “ Just talk to everybody! Most of the people will appreciate it.” I don’t want to say more about Fresher’s week because I don’t want to spoil it for the next generation of Fresher’s, but I can tell you, that the University of Bath students know how to party and they like their fancy dresses. So as an International student you should be prepared to dress up according to the theme of the main event and just have fun!