Building resilience: How to prevent feeling like an imposter from holding you back

Posted in: Academic skills, Capabilities Framework, Employability, Resilience, student experience

Starting at university or a new job can bring a mix of excitement and uncertainty. You might find yourself questioning whether you’re good enough, wondering if everyone else seems more confident than you, or feeling pressure to prove that you deserve to be there. Perhaps you hesitate to ask questions because you’re worried that they might sound obvious, or maybe you find it difficult to recognise your own achievements, even when things are going well.

If any of this sounds familiar, you're not alone.

Many of us experience what is commonly known as imposter syndrome. These feelings involve doubting your abilities and attributing your successes to luck, timing, or external factors rather than recognising your own competence. The concept was first described by psychologists Pauline Clance and Suzanne Imes in their seminal paper published in 1978.

Since then, a lot of research has been conducted on the subject. A systematic review published in the Journal of General Internal Medicine found that imposter feelings are experienced by a substantial proportion of people across both educational and professional settings, highlighting just how common these experiences can be.

While these feelings can be uncomfortable, they are not a sign that you don't belong at university or that you're incapable of succeeding.

Why do imposter feelings develop?

These feelings can often arise during periods of change, challenge, or transition, situations that are common throughout university life.

Maybe you're adjusting to greater independence, balancing study with work or family responsibilities, or learning new academic skills. Some students may be particularly vulnerable to imposter feelings. First-generation students, mature students returning to education, international students, and those from underrepresented backgrounds may face additional pressures or barriers that contribute to self-doubt.

It's important to remember that these feelings do not arise in a vacuum. Sometimes the environments we study and work in can influence how confident we feel about our abilities. Feeling uncertain in a new environment is often a natural response to unfamiliar challenges rather than evidence that you are not capable.

Common signs of imposter syndrome

Imposter feelings can affect how we think, feel, and behave. Some common signs include:

  • Believing your successes are due to luck rather than your own hard work or abilities
  • Constantly comparing yourself to others and using their achievements to judge your own worth
  • Thinking that you do not belong (socially and academically)
  • Procrastinating because you're worried your work won't be good enough
  • Avoiding opportunities because you're afraid of failure or being judged
  • Downplaying your achievements and dismissing compliments
  • Engaging in negative self-talk, such as “I'm not smart enough for this course” or “Everyone else understands this except me.”

Over time, these patterns can contribute to stress, anxiety, and reduced confidence if left unaddressed.

What can I do?

Changing deeply ingrained thought patterns takes time, but there are practical steps you can take to manage imposter feelings and build confidence.

Reframe your self-talk

When self-doubt appears, try to challenge it rather than automatically accepting it as fact.

Ask yourself:

  • What evidence supports this thought?
  • What evidence contradicts it?
  • Would I say this to a friend in the same situation?

Often, our inner critic is far harsher than reality. Learning to recognise and question these thoughts can help replace them with more balanced and realistic perspectives. This helps you identify and challenge unhelpful patterns of thinking.

Keep track of your achievements

It's easy to focus on what still needs to be done and overlook what you've already accomplished.

Try keeping a record of:

  • Positive feedback from lecturers, tutors, or supervisors
  • Assignments you've completed successfully
  • Challenges you've overcome

Reviewing this evidence can provide a useful reminder of your progress if self-doubt starts to creep in.

Celebrate progress, not perfection

University is a learning environment, not a performance of perfection.

Success might mean submitting an assignment on time, contributing to a seminar discussion, attending lectures consistently, or finally understanding a tough concept. Recognising these achievements can help build confidence over time.

Limit social comparisons

It's natural to compare yourself with others, but these comparisons are often incomplete and unfair.

On social media and even in everyday conversations, people tend to share their successes more readily than their struggles. Research on social comparison and social media suggests that comparing ourselves to idealised portrayals of others can negatively affect self-esteem and wellbeing.

Instead of measuring yourself against others, focus on your own development and progress.

Talk with others

Imposter feelings can feel isolating, especially when you assume everyone else is coping perfectly.

In reality, many people may experience similar concerns but rarely talk about them openly. Discussing your experiences with friends, classmates, tutors, or mentors can help you gain perspective and realise that you're not alone.

Seek support when you need it

If self-doubt is having a significant impact on your daily life, consider reaching out for support.

The University's wellbeing services, academic advisers, and support teams are here to help you develop strategies for managing stress, anxiety, and confidence-related challenges.

Moving forward

Part of the university experience is learning new skills, encountering challenges, and sometimes discovering areas where you still have room to grow.

You don't simply “find yourself” at university. You learn more about your strengths, your interests, and the areas you want to develop further. Not knowing everything is not evidence that you're a fraud, it's evidence that you're learning.

When imposter feelings appear, it can help to return to questions we’ve discussed: what evidence supports this thought, and what evidence contradicts it? Writing your answers down can make these patterns easier to notice over time, especially when doubt feels strongest in the moment.

You might also find it useful to keep an ongoing record of your progress. This could be a reflective journal, digital document, or a folder where you save positive feedback, achievement, and times you overcame challenges. The University’s My Employability Profile allows you to record achievements, experiences, and feedback to help you reflect on your development journey.

Used consistently over time, this will build a balanced picture of your development that you can return to when self-doubt creeps in.

The next time imposter feelings appear, remember that uncertainty, mistakes, and growth are all normal parts of education. You earned your place here, and your achievements deserve to be recognised.

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